by Sally | Feb 14, 2022 | Couples & Relationships, Mental Health
Dr Sue Johnson, the developer and creator of Emotionally Focused Therapy or EFT (the approach I use in my work), describes what happens when couples get stuck in negative and reactive communication: “In insecure, distressed relationships, we disguise our... 
by Sally | Apr 26, 2021 | Couples & Relationships
When a loved one doesn’t take a compliment, it very hard to know what to say. Those who suffer from low self-esteem have rigidly strong beliefs about themselves. For example, you know that your partner deserved that promotion they worked so hard to achieve.... 
by Sally | Mar 3, 2021 | Couples & Relationships
In my time as a relationship counsellor, there is probably one statement I have heard more than any other around healing from an affair: “I do not think I can ever get over this” The most second most common phrase I hear is: “I do not think I can... 
by Sally | Jan 25, 2021 | Couples & Relationships
We often do not have great role models for communication in our intimate relationships. If you find yourself struggling, hoping things will get better with your partner but not knowing what to do, the tips below might be an excellent place to start. A healthy... 
by Sally | Jun 29, 2020 | Couples & Relationships
“The spark’ is a phrase that gets used around romantic relationships. You might have felt ‘the spark’ at the beginning of your relationship and as a result, the early days were exhilarating for you and your partner. However, like every other...
